Her name is spencer. she sits with a bunch of people at lunch..she comes to me for everything. All her problems are there for me to help her solve.

lets begin.. Today..

spencer told me that this guy she likes..kinda likes her back .."a little"..she doesnt know what this is supposed to mean...I dont really know how to help her with this one..

she told me that they kiss like every day..but she doesnt know what to do about him.

The guy she likes..his name is Jake. well jake is a really ..'flirtatious' person....but even when he is around spencer...he is flirting with other girls. I feel really bad for spencer because she gets angry upset and doesn't know what to do. ..when Jake sees spencer in the hallway....he grabs her hand ..or touches her..while he passes ..*not in an inappropriate way..but a good way... he will like...brush his hand against her arm or try to grab her hand while they pass....

now spencer and jake have the smae lunch..today they didn't really talk much in lunch....he was sitting somewhere else...and towards the end of the period...he went to her table to say hi to everone sitting there...he tried to tickle one of her friends..she got kinda upset and sat back or whatever.....then this girl melissa started crying because she found out that no one wanted her sitting at the table.....but thats some other retarded story spencer told me.

Spencer told me that this morning..when she got to school..she was walking her with friend rob to class with jake.

On the way back to the cafeteria...jake had to go to his class....he gave her a hug..and kissed her....

She told me after that..she went back into the cafeteria..she was reading a book then started crying.
she said because she doesnt know what to do and she is just really confused about what he wants. and supposedly he doesnt want a "relationship" now..
she was complaining that every guy she ends up likeing doesn't want a relationship...Im tired of her always being upset and depressed. She is starting to be able to tell that people are getting annoyed with her...personally ...she is my best friend so it doesn't really bother me. Im here to try and help her.

andway..she went to talk to me after about the previous..cause I came up to her in the cafe and asked her what was wrong...when we got back to the lunch room... Jake was in there....she was sitting down trying to finish a homework assignment...jake walked over to her and said something...they got up and left..spencer came back a few minutes later alone.


Later on ...she told me what happened..

they were just talking in the hall way ..and jake had to go do some test for a teacher...so before he left..they were making out ..then ...when they stopped...he didn't do anything...aside from goodbye...

I personally think they should just go out..but she is WAYY too scared to say anything about it to him...And something is just telling me he wont do it anytime soon...

its a weird relationship..affair...whatever you want to call it...I mean niether of them have a gf/bf...i dont know..I just wish i knew how to help her in a better way.

..Im running out of advice for her..I know from personal experience that telling her that she can find someone better or to get over him does't work!!

..it is so frusterating for me....I cant help her but I want her to be happy...she doesn't know what to do..but she really likes him and wants to be with him..but so far ..its just not working out...


help?!!

*note*~names have been changed to protect the innocent...If you know who this is talking about..please keep that to yourself..I applaud you if you do!